Accepting what is to come
Sunday, October 9, 2022
What I am doing during the lull
Tuesday, June 21, 2022
Virtual writing classes end for now.
Abbie Taylor |
Monday, April 11, 2022
Poetry Month and my poetry here
Sometimes I forget the years before spiraling
darkness took its toll. Now aging wraps me in
silken threads, squeezes me into a box.I forget until a whirlwind, half my age,
delves into my life. Her purpose, unclutter
my house, my life, set me free of the past.
I forget until she tells me 2005 was long ago.
It’s yesterday to me. She brands my computer
an antique, like me, I suppose.
Floppy disks? Does anybody still use them?
She tosses them in the trash. What can she know
of such things? I saved precious words on those disks.
I am saddened by the pain she has yet to face.
Her biggest loss so far – a breakup with her boyfriend.
Six years gone now, I kept his voice on the answering machine.
Thursday, January 27, 2022
The biggest reason people don't write?
Feb 2020, my backyard. Has nothing to do with this blog post, but we do expect snow tomorrow.
What keeps people from writing? Fear.
For many, putting our thoughts and words on paper is
terrifying. It is like pulling your heart out of your chest, handing it over to
someone, and saying, “Do whatever you want with it. Smash it in the ground if
you want. Throw it in the trash, chop it into little pieces and throw it away.
But I hope you will love it and treat it with tenderness.”
Writing is a personal experience and not everyone can do
it. Fear of what others might say about us and our writing is one of the
largest challenges we face. We also have doubts about ourselves. I can’t
really write. I’m not that good. Who am I to think I can write anything others
would want to read?
I am sure that everyone who has written and shared what
they wrote, had those self-doubts. We all second-guess ourselves. I know I have,
and I still do at times. I have a short story I wrote 25 years ago, printed it
out, edited it to death, and only let one person read it. I thought it was
pretty good. But the one person who read it, when asked what she thought, said,
“It was interesting, but I knew who was going to be the guilty one before you
ever got to that last part.”
Why did that bring up all my self-doubts? Why did I put
that story away with the promise that one day I would revise it and submit it?
As writers we pour our hearts and souls into each poem, short story, non-fiction,
or novel, and we never feel quite sure it will be accepted by readers.
Years ago, Kathryn Stripling Byer,
the first female poet laureate of North Carolina, who had published many poetry
books, won all kinds of awards, told me something I have remembered till this
day. “No matter how many books I have published,” she said. “Each new
manuscript I send to LSU Press (her press for many years) makes me as nervous
as the first one I submitted. There is no guarantee they will like this one.
There is no guarantee that it won’t be rejected.”
I was dumbfounded. I thought
with her reputation and all the praise and outpouring of respect and love for
her, she would be completely confident that anything she submitted would be
grabbed up with joy. But, in the long run, no matter how famous, how many
laurels one wins, we all still put on our pants one leg at the time the same as
everyone else.
The words she confided in me made a huge difference in my
thinking about what success is in the writing world. Although that short story
I wrote twenty-five years ago has not seen the light of day, I am going to
include it in my short story collection that I hope to submit or have published
this year. In fact, I am digging back into my early writing and finding poems
that I feared were not good enough to submit and including them in my next chapbook.
We must put fear behind us and realize that
rejections are not personal indictments against us or our writing.
Editors have many reasons why they choose what they will
publish. One of my poems, The Peach, was chosen for a literary journal
simply because it brought back a memory to the editor. He said when he read it,
he remembered how his mother would whip him with a peach tree switch when he
was a little boy. He did not say the poem was good and he did not choose it
because of its literary merit. He chose it because it brought back a memory from
his childhood.
I learned not to count my rejections. Why
should I? I count only the acceptances
of my work. We don’t need or want to crow about our latest rejection, do
we? But we shout out loud about the latest poem, short story or book
acceptance. And we should.
We talked today on Mountain Wordsmiths about how
we can promote our work during this pandemic. Book signings are scary for me,
although some authors are out there meeting the people face to face. I am
delighted that we have Zoom and can meet new people, share our work, and sell
our books even though it is much harder to sell a book online.
I think we must stop counting the number of books sold at
an event, and look at marketing our name, our faces and personalities online. I
am not a huge social media person. I don’t have a smart phone welded to my hand
and am annoyed by those who do. But, as a writer in today’s world, you must
have a social media identity either on Facebook, Twitter, Instagram or others.
I use Facebook as my social media outlet. I tried others, but just don’t want
to take the time to scroll through them all the time.
Did you know that scrolling is now considered as addictive
as smoking once was? Someone dear to me admitted recently that she was afraid
she was addicted to scrolling. What is it that hooks folks?
Anyway, if it helps promote your writing, you must take
time for social media marketing every day. I post on three blogs and that has
built me an audience in three countries – not big, but enough it satisfies me.
I adore my blogger friends who always leave comments on my posts. I do the same
for them.
The point of it all is we need and want to connect with others.
When we share our writing, we feel a need to have someone validate us, read,
and give us feedback that will encourage us without putting us down. We need to
know where we could improve our work, but we don’t need someone insinuating we
have no hope. Encourage and critique with kindness is the best way to help a
writer. I know that because my mentor and teachers, Nancy Simpson and Carol
Crawford did that for me.
In our discussion today on Zoom, the majority of us
agreed that if only one person has benefited from our writing, we are a
success. That is why our readers can make us very happy if they email or call
as someone did today to tell me how much she has enjoyed Paws, Claws, Hooves, Feathers and Fins; Family Pets and God’s other Creatures. I don’t know if she bought it
on Kindle, as a used book at the library, or purchased a brand-new paperback from
Tigers in Hayesville, she made my day.
Monday, July 12, 2021
Why Do You Write?
Students gather around the table for a class in my studio before COVID |
Monday, May 24, 2021
Last Class for Now
Saturday, September 14, 2019
Can I Prompt You to Write?
Brian A. Klems is the online editor of Writer’s Digest and author of the popular gift book Oh Boy, You’re Having a Girl: A Dad’s Survival Guide to Raising Daughters.
Monday, April 1, 2019
Meet C. Hope Clark, Mystery Writer
That is a good marketing plan and one C. Hope Clark discusses in her guest post on www.netwestwriters.blogspot.com this week. An author who writes books can build her name by writing articles and doing interviews published in newspapers, magazines, online and ezines. Hope Clark is proof that her system works. She is author of two award-winning mystery series.
Friday, March 22, 2019
WRITERS' NIGHT OUT-- APRIL 12 -- CHECK OUT THIS YEAR'S SCHEDULE
We have such a good time at Writers Night Out in Blairsville, GA.
I am happy that Michelle Keller and I will be featured readers May 10, 7:00 p.m.
Mary Mike, my friend, writes poetry that is memorable and shows her knowledge of what makes a good poem.
She is one of the busiest people I know, and one of the most knowledgeable people I know. No matter what I need she can tell me what to do or she can come over and take care of it. But she is a dear friend who is always there for me as I am for her.
- April 12: Chelsea Rathburn & James May
- May 10: Glenda Beall & Mary Mike Keller
- June 14 James Davis & Dan Veach
- July 12: Victoria Barken & Ryvers Stewart
- August 9: Mary Ricketson & Loren Leith
- September 13: Kathy Nelson & Karen Paul Holmes
- October 11: Linda Jones & Alan Cone
- November 8: Rosemary Royston & TBA
Monday, March 18, 2019
Writing about Your Life classes in April, May and June
For class description click here.
This class will be taught at my studio in Hayesville, NC instead of on the Young Harris College campus. To register for this class, contact ICL at www.iclyhc.org
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Beginning June 4, a new Writers Circle Studio course is scheduled.
Instructor: Glenda Beall -
Use registration form at top of page.
June 4, Tuesday 2:00 – 4:30 pm
June 11, Tuesday 2:00 – 4:30 pm
June 18, Tuesday 2:00 – 4:00 pm
June 25, Tuesday 2:00 – 4:30 pm
Read description of this class here.
Wednesday, September 5, 2018
Lyn Hawks wrote about the pitfalls with agents coming and going.
https://lynhawks.com/dont-despair/
Finding an agent you like and can work with is difficult. One writer says she wasted a year with an agent who she finally realized was not that interested in her books.
Some people find the perfect agent and give that person accolades for all the help given to the author. In the above post by Lyn Hawks, writers can see the journey toward the published book is not straight and easy. Perseverance seems to be the most important virtue of the author who has books on the shelves in Barnes and Noble and on Amazon. How about receiving over 100 rejections? Would you stay with it that long?
Monday, August 13, 2018
Setting Writers on the Right Track
Anne Bowman, Terri Thrower, Carol Gladders, Caroll Taylor, Nancy Meyers Lisa Long Back: Richard Cary and Don Long Sitting in front, instructor: Glenda beall TCCC Publishing and Marketing Class August 11, 2018 Carol Crawford presented a power point program on what a writer needs to know when preparing a manuscript for publication. Glenda Beall discussed the importance of marketing before publishing, places to submit poetry and prose as well as online methods of marketing. |
Saturday, July 14, 2018
These writers came to Carol Crawford's workshop today
Photo by Carol Crawford |
From left is Anne Bowman, Carol Gladders, Me, Diane Payne on the far end, Jerry Stripling, Nancy Meyers and Ayer Gresham. All of these people have taken my classes at my studio. They said they enjoy coming and getting to know other writers as well as learning.
Carol's workshop was fun and full of good information. She gave us writing assignments to do in class that helped us get away from the cliché and made us think of the best way to describe someone without the every day "drivers license" description--five feet, two inches tall, with black hair.
photo by Glenda Beall Carol is standing at the far end of the table by the board.
The writing assignment spurred me on to write about a family member. This often happens in workshops. We find that we become motivated to write, to get those words on paper now. Some of my best poems have come to light in a poetry class.
I decided I could work in another six week course at the studio beginning on August 14. We will meet Tuesday afternoons, 2 - 5 PM. This creative writing course is 18 hours of class time. We write something fresh and new each week and we share it with our classmates. We are taking registration now.
Contact me at gcbmountaingirl@gmail.com if you want to register and I will give you information for sending a check.
Visit www.glendacouncilbeall.com and click on the Studio Schedule page for a class description.
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Sunday, August 10, 2014
Article by Lucy Gratton - Rice and Beall read at JCCFS
Glenda enjoys writing articles for newspapers on subjects that are important to her such as indoor air pollution and spaying and neutering pets. She supports animal rescue shelters with her articles. She taught memoir writing at John C. Campbell Folk School for several years. She also teaches writing at Tri-County Community College.
Glenda served as program director of North Carolina Writers’ Network West in 2007 and 2008, and is now Clay County Representative for NCWN West. Glenda is author of NOW MIGHT AS WELL BE THEN, poetry published by Finishing Line Press, and she compiled a family history, PROFILES AND PEDIGREES, THOMAS CHARLES COUNCIL AND HIS DESCENDANTS, published by Genealogy Publishing Company.
Glenda is Owner/Director of Writers Circle where she invites those interested in writing poetry or prose to her home studio for classes taught by some of the best poets and writers in the area. Find her online at www.glendacouncilbeall.blogspot.com and www.profilesandpedigrees.blogspot.com
Saturday, December 29, 2012
Write these dates on your calendar
away and you see them once or twice a year. Maybe
your children or grandchildren are just too busy to
listen to stories about your childhood, growing up
in the last half of the twentieth century. Have you
always planned to write about your life for your
children and grandchildren? In this class you will learn
how to write your stories so they will be interesting,
enlightening and entertaining. That will be the most
valuable and long-lasting possession you can give to
them.
Instructor: Glenda Beall Minimum students: 6
Tuesday afternoons - March 5 - April 9 for 6 wks
3:00 p.m. - 5:00 p.m.